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Wednesday, April 15th, 2015

Should I Worry about My Child’s Accent in Her Foreign Language?

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Should I Worry about My Child’s Accent in Her Foreign Language?
Dear Dr. Gupta,   My three-year-old daughter lives in Greece, is being brought up by a German nanny, speaks German perfect and German is her dominant language for the time being. She also speaks Greek and English but her accent is not very good in English as her teachers are Australian.   Should I seek a teacher with a British accent? In which language should she start reading and writing? At which age? She will definitely attend the Greek school since we do not have a foreign school in our city.  Read more »

How My Two Year Old is Teaching Me Thai

As an adult who is embarrassingly monolingual, I never stop lamenting the “what if” of truly learning and assimilating a foreign language to the point of fluency.  Read more »

How I Made My Forgotten Native Language My Child’s Strongest

In the very early videos of my son’s life you can hear me in the background speaking English to him.  Read more »

After Her Husband’s Tragic Death, She Embraced a Religion and Culture Not Her Own

Yuki is a Japanese-born single mom. She has managed to raise her nine-year-old son Abi alone, after overcoming the sudden tragic death of her Jewish-American husband in San Francisco when Abi was just a baby.  Read more »

What Friendship Looks Like for Little Global Citizens

Girl on the left: Moroccan-American. Speaks English, Arabic and learning Spanish. Faith: MuslimGirl on the right: Filipina-American. Speaks English and Tagalog. Faith: ChristianBest friends.     (The one on the left is my youngest daughter.).  Read more »

Real Intercultural Family in Thailand: French, English and Spanish

Meet Javier and Cordelia—a French-American-Mexican couple who are raising kids in Asia after a romance that spanned London and New York City.   Where are you from?   Cordelia: I was born in New York to a French mother, American father.   Javier: Mexico City.   Where do you currently live and what countries have you lived in together?   Cordelia: We live in Thailand.  Read more »

How This Single Working Mom Raised a Trilingual Kid

Maria came to San Francisco from Zacatecas, Mexico as a teenager. She crossed the border illegally with the husband she married in her hometown. Because of Maria’s mother’s influence, she married too young, at the age of 16, and since then has had a hard life full of responsibilities.  She is now a U.S. citizen who eventually divorced and currently lives with her three children, younger daughter Karina and two older sons in the Mission district of San Francisco.  Read more »

The Power of Immersion Travel

As I browsed a local Nicaraguan newspaper this morning at breakfast, La Prensa, my daughter noticed the kids page and asked to see it.   "Mama, it says 'seis diferencias,' six differences," she told me and continued on down the page.   At home she would never think of picking up something in Spanish to read over English and often times I face groans if I choose a Spanish book to read.  Read more »

Real Intercultural Family in Canada: Mandarin, Latvian and English

Where are you from?   Inese: I was born in Latvia but moved to Shanghai, China when I was 20.   Eric: I was born in Shanghai China, but moved to Canada when I was 20. That was the same calendar year Inese moved to Shanghai. Weird coincidence.   Where do you currently live and what countries have you lived in together?   Inese & Eric: We currently live in Vancouver, Canada—which is the only place we’ve lived together, so far.  Read more »

3 Big Mistakes Parents Make in Raising Bilingual Kids

Raising bilingual kids can often be hard work to ensure the child is getting enough exposure in the second language. While no parents mean to discourage their kids, make sure their enthusiasm stays on track by avoiding these big mistakes.   1. Correcting them: Children that are corrected too much in their second language will be reluctant to speak out of fear they will say something wrong.  Read more »

Real Intercultural Family in Guatemala: Russian, Spanish and English

Welcome Marina and Federico!   Where are you from?   Marina: I was born in the former USSR and immigrated to the U.S. with my parents when I was six. I am a U.S. citizen and have been living in Central America for over 10 years.   Federico: Guatemala.   Where do you currently live and what countries have you lived in together?   Marina: We live in Guatemala and lived in Costa Rica for six years before here.  Read more »

7 Benefits of Raising Bilingual Kids

Being bilingual affords children (and adults) many advantages over the course of their lifetime. Here are seven benefits of raising bilingual kids that have been documented in research and studies.   1.     Bilingual children have a better ability to focus and ignore distractions in the environment. That’s because the part of the brain called the executive function, used for planning, judgment, working memory, problem solving and staying focused on what’s relevant is stronger in bilinguals.  Read more »

Is My Daughter Singing in Korean?

My six-year-old was teaching this song the other night to her sister. I had to pay attention to see if this was a new Arabic song she might have learned from her babysitter but realized after a sec it wasn't Arabic or any other language we know. What was she singing? "Korean," she answered me flatly (in that, sigh mom, isn't this obvious way). "Chu-Hee and Jeehyun taught it to me.  Read more »

Why Arabic is Dead and Spanish is Alive for My Kids

My kids hear Arabic every day from their dad but it’s amazing how much more of a hold Spanish is taking after seven months of learning it. They take Spanish several days per week in a small class with two friends. Plus many of their close friends are native Spanish speakers so we are socially in an environment with Spanish around us pretty frequently.  Read more »

Real Intercultural Family in the U.S.: Russian, Spanish and English

Welcome Lydia, Abigail and Max!   Where are you from?   Guatemala and Belize. I was born in Guatemala and raised in both countries during some of the worst years of civil war in Guatemala. My dad was Guatemalan and my mom Belizean.   Where do you currently live and what countries have you lived in?   I currently live in Berkeley, California.  Read more »
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