Articles by Umm Salihah
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Monday, May 21st, 2012
Can You be Muslim and English?By Umm Salihah We recently celebrated St. George’s Day here in England, the day of the country’s patron saint. My children dressed in red, white and blue for their schools’ St. George’s celebrations. For most people this is no longer a celebration tied to religion, but about celebrating all things English. I have always felt very conflicted about my identity—am I English, British, Pakistani, Punjabi or none of these? Can you be more than one? Growing up, my parents made it very clear to me that we were Pakistani. Read more »
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